5:44 AM 24th Oct 07 Relationship Secrets from the Pros
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We want nothing more than for your online dating experience to be a success. We have created our online dating business in an effort to improve the lives of others. This is why we provide expert advice on our online site.

Once you meet someone you wish to have a romance with; you will want to take steps towards having a successful relationship. We have compiled relationship success tips used by the experts themselves. The following list of tips all come from marriage and relationship counselors.

  • Learn from history and don’t repeat it. If, for example, in your last relationship, your mate always complained that you were selfish; you will wish to be aware of this in your present relationship. Watch for any signs that you are repeating old habits. If you are finding that they are coming up; quickly take steps to change your behavior.
  • Compliment each other often. When your spouse pays you a compliment, quickly respond by saying, “please repeat that”. This reminds your spouse  that you like knowing you are appreciated.
  • Continue dating each other even after you have been together for quite sometime.  Dating helps to keep the spark in the relationship. Once a week, set aside a special date night for only you and your mate. Plan romantic dinners, walks in the park, etc. Do the same things that you did when your relationship was young.
  • Wash each others backs in the shower. This symbolizes that you have “each other’s backs” both literally and emotionally.
  • Follow three simple rules of communication: be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger.
  • Learn to art of compromising. No one is perfect and you are bound to each have habits that gets on the other’s nerves. Learn to strike deals. For example: If your partner complains about your snoring. Strike a deal that you will consult an ENT if they agree to clean the toilets.
  • Once a week, create a “love bubble”. This is time set aside where you promise to only talk about positive things. You also must promise to not talk about the kids or household chores.
  • Decide if you would rather be in a relationship or right. Remind yourself of this every time an argument erupts.
  • Keep your sense of humor.
  • Don’t let the little things bother you. Decide what is an issue big enough to get upset about.
  • Each day find something that you appreciate about your mate and then say it to them.
  • Don’t let your children divide you. Keep united in your task of raising your children.
  • Eat your meals together. Meals are a time when families connect with one another.
  • Plan a romantic evening at home alone. Send the children to the babysitters, light some candles, put on some mood music, and let nature take it’s course.

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